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E-Mail Excerpts From Allen and Tara Laban,
India 2005
Allen and Tara Laben share their impressions,
adventures, Bible School experiences, and pastoral activities, all of
which were packed into their first month in India. Tara has a very engaging
writing style, so these e-mail extracts make for an easy read. You will
want to read all three!
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Part Four
Pastoral Work in Visakhapatnam—
Nov
23, 2005
Dear Loved Ones,
We arrived in India two months ago today. It seems to have passed by
in a moment. It'll be March before we know it! You've heard our reports
on our initial reactions, the visits to Kolkata and Vijayawada for Bible
Weeks, and a few other impressions. Time to unveil the real project that
has taken away most of our e-mail time: pastoral work in Visakhapatnam.
Nestled in a crescent of hills stemming from the Eastern Ghats, Visak
sits on the edge of the Bay of Bengal and houses Andhra Pradesh's biggest
factories and plants. It's the second biggest city in the state and has
the largest ship building yard in the country. The factories make for
plenty of jobs which have encouraged the establishment of suburbs. We
live in one of these suburbs, Old Gajuwaka, about 25 kilometers from
the city center.
Busy Schedule
A cluster of Christadelphians in this area gives us a busy schedule.
We divide our time between the two ecclesias as we bounce between Bible
Classes, CYCs, and Sunday morning meetings. I've been writing and giving
as many as 12 classes a week, but thankfully I can use some of my classes
twice since we have two audiences. A wise brother once told us that "missionary
work is about working yourself out of a job."
We took on most of the speaking burden when we arrived in order to build
familiarity with the local ecclesias, encourage the regularity of these
events, and address some of the outstanding issues.But now the focus
is on passing the work on to a rotating roster of speakers. When Paul
wrote to Timothy, he emphasized the importance of speaking and teaching
to foster personal spiritual growth and that this duty should be shared.
Unfortunately, our natural fear of responsibility tends away from that
and many of the ecclesias have only a few brethren who do all the work.
It's hard to say if our encouragement away from this trend will have
any impact, but we're working on it – may God provide the increase.
Youth Group
One of the ecclesias has a strong Youth Group that meets weekly following
the Sunday memorial service, and it's a joy to attend. A half-hour
class is followed by rambunctious games that usually involve chasing,
tagging, or passing. They love learning games we play at CYC in Norfolk.
Mind games and riddles like "the Hand Game" can last for
hours. Does anyone know the game ZIP BOING? That one's a hit, too.
The second ecclesia has plenty of young people, but a fleeting CYC that
forms when the missionaries visit, but disbands when they leave. Here
lies a second project. How do you show young people that they need each
other? How do you show them that it's for their good that they get together
on a regular basis – not just for a show when the Westerners drop
by? These are hard questions that aren't unique to India.
God blessed our situation over the last two weeks as we had our first
regular meetings and classes on the importance of CYC and on how to read
your Bible and share your thoughts. Surprisingly, the group enthusiastically
took up the idea of creating a speaking roster. We pray that this fire
won't die out once we leave! We have to remind ourselves that it is Christ
who watches over the Visak ecclesias and he will see to their growth.
Flood Waters
Before coming to Visak, we could anticipate these activities – we
expected that we would attend ecclesial functions, give classes and encourage
participation. However, we did not expect some of the other tasks placed
before us. We mentioned in a previous e-mail that Visak has suffered
from major flooding from the monsoon season. Since we arrived in the
middle of this crisis, we became the front-line reporters and intermediaries
assessing the situation.
On our second day in Visak we jumped in an auto with two other missionaries
that were passing through and headed out to S.T. Colony, which still
had flood waters lapping at the bases of half the homes. The water reached
a height of 8 feet in the lowest areas, enough to collapse the walls
of every hut and completely demolish 20 of the 60 dwellings. To get to
the colony, the flood waters first traversed a graveyard and sewage ditches,
adding a concern of cholera, dysentery, and hook worms. When we arrived
at the colony, a light rain welcomed us and persisted as we took photos
and counted damaged huts.
A few weeks later we returned, this time to make a complete map of the
colony and a list of the affected families. We helped arrange contractor
estimates for replacing the mud and wood huts with cement homes, met
with the local chapter of World Vision to make sure that our efforts
would not overlap with theirs, and e-mailed all reports and maps back
to Hyderabad. Continuing with the unexpected activities, we also found
ourselves drafting maps and reports on a leprosy colony that suffered
damage from the heavy rains.
On a brilliantly sunny afternoon, Tara and I toured the 16 hut colony
on the edge of an old rock quarry. Again, we took photos, asked about
the damage to each home, and typed up our observations with our suggestions.
Marriage Issues
Our involvement in marriage issues may be our most unexpected role here.
Like anywhere in the world, marriages take work, and when someone doesn't
want to put in the effort, things fall apart. As it should be, the
local brethren are doing most of the counseling; we've simply tried
to comfort, listen, and encourage communication between the couple.
Although we sometimes really wish God would just make everyone's decisions
for them, the final choices rest in the hands of our Sister and Brother – the
situation is disappointing right now, but only God knows how that story
will end. Husbands and wives out there – never give up on talking
to each other and never stop forgiving.
Support System
Every day brings a new appeal for money, a call for a class for some
special occasion, a request for a visit, and we've had other unexpected "big
issues" come up that have sometimes left us wondering how to respond.
The wonderful support system of brethren has helped us tremendously
when we feel we're getting in over our heads. It's a blessing to know
that all the answers rest in God's word, and that wise counsel is just
a phone call away. Amazingly, Tara and I haven't felt too over-burdened
or stressed. We've not been forced to take on any role we felt ill-prepared
for. When we send out our help signals, the reinforcements come in
a flash, whether in the form of a local brother or sister to fill one
of our roles when other issues leave us pressed for time, or sound
advice over the phone from the likes of Tim Galbraith. Yes, there have
been challenges, but the sort of challenges that foster growth rather
than crush. We cannot give enough thanks to God for the capable brothers
and sisters in this area, and our fellow missionaries that help shoulder
the loads we can't bear alone.
We weren't expecting to be acting in a pastoral role over here – before
we came, Tara and I agreed that we'd happily do any job in India except
pastoral work. I suppose our main reason for this stems from our age – but
Paul certainly didn't think young Timothy too young for the work! Maybe
God had a lesson to teach us.
It feels like we can't even write the half of what's going on here.
Thank you all for your prayers!
With love in Christ,
Allen and Tara
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